Everyone knows travel is valuable. We see bloggers traveling the world and having amazing adventures. But not everyone wants to dive in head-first – a first extended trip abroad can feel a bit stressful.
An ideal option for those who want to experience life abroad while still appreciating safety and support is the Au Pair program. It’s not only a chance to polish your language in real conditions but also a way to gain independence—possibly for the first time on that scale. By living with a host family, you become part of their daily life, learn their customs, take on responsibility and independence, and at the same time explore a new country.
This article shows you what the Au Pair program is, what conditions you need to meet, what life as an Au Pair looks like, and how to prepare for this adventure.
What is the Au Pair program – basic definitions
First, let’s explain what the Au Pair program is, and who an Au Pair and host family are.
History of the Au Pair program
The concept dates back to the 19th century, when young women from wealthy European families were sent to England or France to learn the language and culture. The modern program emerged in Europe in the 1950s, popular especially in Switzerland, the UK, and France. Its goal was to allow young people to gain experience abroad by living with a host family, learning the language, and getting cultural exposure in exchange for childcare help. Since then it has become one of the most recognized forms of youth cultural exchange worldwide.
Who is an Au Pair and a host family?
“Au Pair” is French for “on equal terms.” An Au Pair is a young person who lives with a host family and helps care for their children and do light household duties. In exchange, the Au Pair receives accommodation, meals, and pocket money. The host family treats the Au Pair as a family member, not a hired help—more like an older sibling. The Au Pair takes part in family life and also gets to attend language courses. It’s not work in the usual sense—it’s cultural exchange, a way to learn about a new country, language, and live an adventure.
What are the duties of an Au Pair?
Your daily routine depends on the country and the agreement with the host family, but it always centers on childcare. You generally start your day helping get the children ready for school—breakfast, dressing, walking them to school. You might have free time during the day (often used for language classes). Afternoons involve playing, helping with homework, or preparing snacks. You may also do light chores like doing the children’s laundry or tidying their room. On weekends, you often have more free time for socializing, exploring, or relaxation. All these details should be clearly agreed on before you go.
Is an Au Pair the same as a nanny?
While both care for children, the roles are different. Au Pair is cultural exchange—part-time help combined with cultural and language immersion. A nanny is a professional caregiver employed full-time for wages, not usually integrated into family life. Au Pairs typically work around 25–30 hours per week (up to 45 in the USA) with accommodation and pocket money. A nanny works full-time for regular pay without boarding or meals.
Who can become an Au Pair?
It’s primarily for young people (usually ages 18–26) without their own children. Host families often expect some childcare experience—sibling care, babysitting, or volunteering. Basic language skills in the host country are required. In places like Austria or the USA, a driver’s license is often needed due to travel needs.
How long does an Au Pair stay?
You stay for the agreed-upon time—usually 12 months—sometimes extended if both agree. Short-term options of 2–3 months are also available, ideal if you want to test the experience or don’t want to commit longer.
How much does an Au Pair earn and work?
Work hours vary by country: around 25–30 hours weekly, but up to 45 hours in the USA. Pocket money depends on the country—roughly €280–€350/mo in Germany, €320 in France, and at least $200/week in the USA. Since room and board are provided, that allowance covers personal expenses. Occasionally Au Pairs receive extra money for additional tasks or travel costs covered by the host family.
Another key benefit: the host family pays for your language course—you must attend it but not pay for it yourself. A good language course is costly, so this is a significant financial perk.
How to become an Au Pair?
If you meet the requirements and want to become an Au Pair, choose a reputable agency with good reviews. Agencies offer support at every stage—matching with a family, paperwork, visa help, and assistance during the stay. That’s the safest way.
Alternatively, some use platforms to connect directly with families—but use only trusted sites and verify thoroughly.
Application process
It involves sending a CV and cover letter describing your childcare experience, language level, and motivation. Include references like babysitting or volunteering, plus a police certificate or driver’s license if needed—verify what the host family requires.
Do Au Pairs need a visa?
For countries outside the EU, yes. In the USA, you need a J‑1 visa. Also mandatory is health insurance. Pay careful attention to the contract with your host family—outlining duties, hours, pocket money, free time, and vacation. Read it carefully before signing. Choosing an agency ensures assistance with all this.
The preparation may seem tedious, but think of it as the gateway to an amazing experience. Picture yourself living in your dream country—Germany? Sweden? New Zealand? Or the USA? With Au Pair programs, the world is within reach. Good luck!
FAQ
Where to find reliable Au Pair info?
Use forums, Facebook groups, and agency websites (e.g. Easy Travel Abroad—one of the leading Au Pair agencies).
Can boys become Au Pairs?
Yes, although most Au Pairs are female, boys are welcome too—what matters is your skills and character.
Where to find reliable Au Pair info?
Use forums, Facebook groups, and agency websites (e.g. Easy Travel Abroad—one of the leading Au Pair agencies).
